I like the way Urban Dictionary described ‘heart melt,’ “heart orgasm, when your heart feels like someone is grabbing it, twisting it, but it feels really good”. Who doesn’t want to have an experience of such feeling? I didn’t decide to go into a relationship for someone to be asking the ‘daughter of Zion’ “have you eaten?” every minute of the day.
Articles are are all over the internet, on how to spice up relationships, but in this article, I will be explaining with practical examples, how to go about it.
Send Random Text and Mail
It normal to send text, but i am not talking about the regular good morning copy and paste message of this kind ” I am writing this message with my pen from the basket of joy and I seal your heart with love”. I am referring to the texts and mails from the core of your heart, the one you send with no reason or purpose.
Sending Love Songs With Powerful Lyrics
The song you love most presently is your favourite, because you have attributed a feeling, a person or an event to it. Yay or nah? Sending love songs with powerful lyrics to your partner has a way of making the person think of you each time the song comes on. Songs like:
Love song by Adele
Loving you by Minie Riperton 1974
Sweetest Taboo by Sade Adu
Beautiful love by Johnny Drille
One and only by Adele
Promise by Adekunle Gold and Simi
Endless Love and Truly by Lionel Richie
Random Selfies
Think of you unlocking your phone to view your notifications and the first message you see is a jpeg from the LOYL making funny faces
, or an office look or an after Gym look. Send random pictures, flood their gallery, don’t wait till you’re asked.
Send Random Gifts
I know you send or buy gifts for your partner on their birthday or on all other special occasions, but have you sent them gifts without reason, when they don’t see it coming? Chan and Mogilner, 2014, identifies gifting as highly effective form of prosocial spending and can have a greater impact on improving the relationship between the giver and receiver.
Handmade Gift and Note
I consider this the easiest. All that is needed is your creative mind. Make a paper box and write out reason why you love them. Pour out your heart onto a piece of a note. Distance has nothing on it, send it as .jpeg and it would convey the same impression.
Reaffirmation
The most common word of affirmation is “I love you”. We know they already know we love them, but I love it when I am reminded every time. Some people say it only to end conversation or when they’re about to get intimate and it is already a routine. Some don’t even say it anymore, because they think they’ve passed the mushy mushy stage. It shouldn’t be. Reaffirm your partner for no reason, tell them you are crazy about them every time, everywhere.
